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Welcome. Thank you for choosing. It's like the airlines, you know. I know you have many choices.

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Thank you for choosing Mabel Katz, Ho'oponopono. So how many of you know about Ho'oponopono?

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This will be a kind of a different presentation. I have two children's book, and for me, being able to raise happy kids is very important.

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But today we are going to try to raise a happy kid inside of us.

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So I'm going to be basing a lot in this book, and I will be telling you about.

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They are both based on Ho'oponopono, but this kind of became this. It's kind of the same thing, but in stories.

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So my children's book are for young children and adult children, too, because it's about remembering who we really are.

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So I want you to be, hopefully it will work, yes? This is my first time handling a Mac.

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You Mac people.

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Okay. So today is not the day after yesterday. It is the day before tomorrow.

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You know that every moment is a new start, a new beginning.

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You know, every decision. We are taking decisions all the time.

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And in every moment, you are creating your life. You are creating your destiny.

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You actually can change your destiny.

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How many of you think, oh, this is my luck? This is the way it is, yes?

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But really, it all depends. You can change your destiny because you decided to let go instead of reacting.

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So it's moment by moment.

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But most of the time, the choices that we are making are at the subconscious level.

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We don't even know we are choosing, yes?

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We don't do it consciously.

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So that's why it's so, so important to become children again, to be able to see life like children see.

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Yeah? No differences or anything.

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We need to go back to thinking like children again.

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Worry less.

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Know that we have everything.

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Yesterday, we had a panel in the Spanish section, and somebody asked about anxiety.

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And I said, that's lack of trust.

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We need to trust.

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And we all go through the anxiety.

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We go a lot to the past, you know, depression and all that stuff because we don't want to let go.

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Today, we are going to talk a little bit about forgiveness, too, because that is also, you know, living in the past.

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So our job is to be present, to be more conscious, to make better decisions, because that's when our life changes.

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And really, it is about that.

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So parachutes work only when you are open.

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So are you willing to open your mind?

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It's an hour and a half, this, yes?

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Yes?

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Okay.

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So are you willing for the 90, for the following 90 minutes, are you willing to open your mind?

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Because I'm going to tell you very weird stuff.

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Yeah?

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Are you willing?

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Could you tell the person next to you, I'm willing to open my mind for 90 minutes?

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Yes.

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Yes.

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Yes.

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Yes.

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So I will tell you these weird stories because it's what changed my life.

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This is what really, really changed my life.

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That's why, you know, the easiest way to grow.

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I put all the pictures that now I'm going to show you.

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They are all stories.

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Weird stories that I heard from my teacher, Dr. Ijaliakala, or even from my own students.

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I still hear weird stories from my own students.

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I don't know if you know, but I used to be an accountant, a tax senior accountant, and

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I'm still very intellectual.

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You know, no, it's not like, ah.

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But because I started believing in these weird things, it's that my life changed.

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So the first time that Dr. Ijaliakala, my teacher, came to Los Angeles to teach and he

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stayed at my home, he told me that my washing machine asked him, are you the Ho'oponopono

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guy?

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I prepared you, yeah?

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I told you.

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So can you imagine that a washing machine knew that the Ho'oponopono guy was coming, and

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we think we are superior to a washing machine?

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Or that we know?

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And right now, after all these years, I have so many things to tell you, you know, in my

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spiritual journeys, when we go with people, we just came back from Avalon, and it's been

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an amazing experience.

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And for me to start believing in that magic, but really, the world is magic, and we have

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to connect with that.

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It's very, very important, especially in the times that we are living, where all these

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changes are happening, yes?

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And we need to start going with the flow, instead of, you know, going against the flow, staying

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in the box, you know, because things are like this, and this is the way they have to work.

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So another story that Dr. Ijaliakala told me, that once he slept in the library at a house,

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and he couldn't sleep in the whole night because the authors were discussing the books, you

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know, and ideas and things.

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So can you imagine something like that?

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Crazy, huh?

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Well, this represents different things.

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Morna, Morna Simeona was the one that updated the Ho'oponopono for the modern times.

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She was a healer.

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She spoke to plants, yeah?

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So if she had somebody with a problem, she would talk to the plants, and the plants will

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raise their hand, and they say, we can help with that.

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So yesterday, we were also discussing about going back to our ancestors.

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You know, we got educated.

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What a pity.

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Education, no?

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So now we rely on a part of us that doesn't know anything.

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It doesn't matter how many titles, yes?

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But this also represents a student of mine that was an accountant like me.

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And she also could talk to washing machines and things like that.

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So one day, she came to the training, and she said, Mabel, I quit my job.

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I'm going to open a flower shop.

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And I said, Christine, but you know anything about flowers?

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And she said, no, but I just know I need to open a flower shop.

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So the following training, she comes, and she says, I open the flower shop.

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And what happened is that when I go to the flower market, I go with the list of the flowers

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that I need.

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You know, if I have a party, and I have to prepare the centerpieces, or, you know, somebody

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ordered.

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But I go, and I say, who's coming with me?

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And she can see the flowers raising their hand.

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So she says, sometimes some flowers that I don't have on my list also raise their hand.

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But I trust, and I buy them.

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He says, and then I'm coming to the shop, and I'm putting, you know, the key, and I hear

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the phone ringing.

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And when I pick up the phone, they order those flowers.

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Okay, so how many of you are waiting to open your own, to follow your dreams, to become

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independent because there is something, you are missing something?

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You are missing education, yes, or you don't have the money, or, but amazing things happen

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when you trust.

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Yeah, so when you stop the worrying, yeah, when you come, instead of being in the future,

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you come back to present, when you let go, you know, of the past, when you forgive, yes,

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and, but you have to be conscious enough to realize you are in the past, or you are in

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the future, yeah.

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So, one day, Ijaliakala heard a noise, yeah, so he tuned in, like he used to say, and he saw

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God in a rocking chair, and he asked God, what are you doing?

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No, you go, say, oh, I have so much time, because nobody talks to me.

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He said, they'd rather talk to their neighbors, their psychologists, but nobody talk to me,

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so I have, I keep creating more galaxies, and I have so much time.

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So, talk to God.

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He's always there to listen.

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And, whatever you understand by God, let me explain what I call God, and when I found

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it, because I heard all these stories, one day I said, you know what, I'm going to let

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go and trust.

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I mean, what do I have to lose, yeah?

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I said, I'm going to let go and trust.

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So, that let go and trust took me to start seeing results.

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Things started happening.

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I mean, can you imagine from a tax accountant to traveling the world with this message?

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I mean, and I didn't do it on my own.

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I have help.

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One day, somebody asked me if I had a marketing department, you know, somebody knocking at doors

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for me, you know, opening doors.

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And that day, I started thinking, yeah, and I said, no, I don't have a marketing department.

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And I realized that my marketing department is up there, yeah.

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So, how do I receive, from the beginning, my new career, it's all managed by emails.

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I just receive emails with invitations.

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I just receive emails with offers to buy the copyrights of my books.

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And I'm a published author.

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So, it doesn't make sense.

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And so, it's not about knowing.

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It's not about education.

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It's not about the money.

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It's about opening our mind, trusting, you know, living more in the present, you know,

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being more conscious.

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This one is crazy, crazy, yeah?

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But now that I've been in Avalon, I know these creatures really exist.

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So, so, Morna Simeona prepared two individuals.

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One was Dr. Ijaliakala to give the seminars.

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Another was a lady that used to meditate with her.

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Even when they got by inspiration, channeled the new Ho'oponopono for the modern times,

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she helped Morna also with the meditations.

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And, and then you, it was so amazing when they meditated together, you know,

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because they, Jaliakala would say, I see this, and she would say, I see it too.

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She, he would say, could you check if we can ask this?

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And he, and he, she would say, I see a check mark, you know, or I see a yes.

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So, and, and Jaliakala used to consult a lot with her.

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And one day I said, did she ever tell you that you heard incorrectly?

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She said, no, but if I have somebody to check, you know, I just want to be sure.

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So, one day she calls, and she says, could you check?

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Because I see my windows are rattling.

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I don't know what's going on.

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And so he meditated, and he, when he came back, he says, did you cut some trees today?

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And she said, yeah, we cut some trees in the property.

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He said, well, they are the fairies knocking at your window.

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They are very mad because you left them without a house.

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So, I was in Avalon, and Avalon, they said, you know, there is a lot of magic.

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And a tax senior accountant connecting with magic, I mean, crazy, yes?

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But it was magical.

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It was amazing.

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It was not only the magic part, but everything that happened there, yes?

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When you open up, so one day we had a lot of confirmation in these spiritual trips, like, for example, in Mount Shasta, a student of mine got confirmation that the hope on Avalon really comes from other galaxies.

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You know, that's what Ijaliakala used to say, and one day I decided to erase that, you know?

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And I put, it comes from the original Hawaiians that inhabited, you know, Hawaii.

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But it was true.

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You know, we got confirmation of that.

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And then we got confirmation about, when you do Ho'oponopono, the universe does it for you.

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Our part is so easy.

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It is saying thank you, it is stopping the intellect, and then it's giving permission to a part of you that knows.

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I never told you what I call God, yes?

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Rewind.

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Okay, so, when I started, I was telling you, when I started letting go and trusting, things started happening to me, instead of me pushing like always.

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And I said, I'm not alone, yeah?

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So, I realized that we all have a part of us that knows.

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But, again, we are always listening to the intellect.

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Bruce Lipton says we walk with two antennas.

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Okay?

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And everybody, Bruce Linton, Greg Breda, Joe Dispenza, I mean, everybody.

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Well, yesterday, Papa Jaime.

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Yeah, and everybody.

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We are all saying the same thing.

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The problems are in the subconscious mind.

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Don't look any farther.

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They are closer than your own breath.

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But, like I always say, there are different paths, different ways to erase, to clean the subconscious mind.

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But I found the easiest way.

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Hope you're not going to find easier than this.

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And this is working directly with God.

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That is the part of you that knows.

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It's the other antenna.

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You have to be able to shut down this one to be able to listen.

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You have to be willing to be more in silence.

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To listen.

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You have to be willing to trust more.

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To let go more.

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And then you won't believe your life.

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Now, I want you to know, I have challenges.

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I have problems.

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You know, the universe is very sure to give me opportunities.

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They say you learn, you teach when you need to learn.

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Yeah?

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So, it's not like my life is, ah, I don't have any problems.

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Do Ho'oponopono.

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The idea is, we are going to have the problems anyway.

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So, how can we go easier?

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How can we look at problems and put a distance and realize we are not the problem?

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We are identifying with all that, and we are not that.

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So, this Ho'oponopono that could be as easy as thank you or I love you, it is about coming

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back to present.

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It's about asking for help.

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When are we going to realize we cannot do it alone?

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Look what we created, because we thought we knew.

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So, it's about asking for help and allowing for that help to come back.

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I don't, to come to you.

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I don't know how many of you read my first book, The Easiest Way.

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But, in my first book, I tell the story of creation that Ijaliakala told me, that when

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God put Adam and Eve, it gave, God told them, I can provide you with anything you need.

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You don't need to worry about anything.

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I can provide you with everything you need.

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But, he gave them free choice.

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It was a gift, yeah?

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And it was in the form of the apple tree.

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And, God said, you don't need it.

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This is called thinking.

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You don't need it.

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I can provide you with anything you need.

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But, we decided to think.

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We are still thinking.

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We are still worrying.

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We are still coping.

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Trying, you know, manipulating.

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And, we don't realize that the only way is to let go.

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The only way is to allow God, that is the only one, that can erase the subconscious mind.

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So, Ho'oponopono, I found Ho'oponopono, and I love it, because it's about 100% responsibility.

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That is no guilt, yeah?

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So, what does it mean to be 100% responsible?

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I'm responsible for the memories that are playing in my subconscious mind that show up in the monitor.

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That's why we keep repeating things, too.

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Because, until we don't let go, they are not going to be erased.

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And, we will keep replaying.

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Yeah?

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So, important, the 100% responsibility.

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I want you to know, we have a fun tool in Ho'oponopono.

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We have many, many.

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A lot of people think that Ho'oponopono is, I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you, and I love you.

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Yeah?

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But, let's say that that's one tool that Joe Vitale created, yeah?

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When he wrote the Zero Limits book.

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But, that's not what I learned.

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That's not what I practiced.

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Because, actually, and I'm going to explain this more.

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But, actually, the thank you and the I love you replace what Ho'oponopono is.

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I'm sorry, please forgive me for whatever is in me.

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We become children again.

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Yeah?

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We are not guilty.

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But, what is it in me?

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I don't know.

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But, I'm giving permission to be erased.

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So, I was telling you, in Avalon, we got confirmation.

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Actually, somebody saw how this fun tool that we use that is called flight paper.

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Yeah?

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She had, in a meditation, this experience of people wanting to come into this place, but

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they would bounce, yeah, and drop.

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And, it was like, you know, when you drive, and on the windshield, you know, the mosquitoes

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or the flies or something.

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So, she was kind of, you know, shocked by it.

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She didn't know what was going on.

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And, the voice said, it has the same effect.

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It was the same as the flight paper.

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So, some people in the trainings had that experience that my student in Mount Shasta had,

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where he said they put him in a, like, in a blender, and he could see things flying out

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of his body.

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And, some people have the experience even in the seminars.

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And, that kind of confirmed, yeah, because he asked, he says, what do I do here?

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And, they said, no, no, here you don't do anything.

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We do it for you.

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So, can you imagine that we have all this help, but because we don't ask, because we

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end up, you know, going again, you know, replaying the thinking and the worrying.

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But, that's really how it works.

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Because, when he went into this meditation, they were taking him to different rooms, and

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he said, but I practice Ho'oponopono.

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So, they told him, oh, you practice Ho'oponopono, come this way.

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You know, and they put them in their blender.

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So, anyway, one day, I told that story to my son that is here today, and he looked at

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me with kind of a weird face, and he says, I think, mom, this is just too much, you know.

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So, this is my, this was my response to him.

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I said, the thing that I cannot see or I cannot hear, but considering, opening my mind that

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maybe exists, it changed my life.

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So, that's why I tell you, you know, for me, the most important, and the change was about

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that, opening my mind.

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Opening my mind, knowing that the help is there, because I'm going to start talking to you about

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trusting something that you cannot see, you cannot hear, you cannot feel, yeah.

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But, it's, it's always there for us.

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Okay, so, this is a poem that is called Letting Go.

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It says, giving up is merely quitting.

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Letting go is sweet release.

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Giving up is cries of anguish.

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Letting go is perfect peace.

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Giving up is hard and heavy.

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Letting go is loose and light.

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Giving up is simply failure.

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Letting go, success in sight.

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Giving up is very human.

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Letting go is most divine.

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Giving up is death at sundown.

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Letting go, the rising sun.

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Giving up is there.

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It's over.

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Letting go, I just began.

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So, every time I let go, I go to zero.

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And that's where everything that we are looking for is.

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That's what inspiration is.

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Because if I'm thinking, inspiration cannot come in my life.

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Yes?

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If I'm worrying, inspiration cannot come in my life.

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So, I have to be able to, moment by moment, take me back to zero.

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So, I notice I'm engaging because I still engage.

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Yeah?

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I still blame and still complain, like you.

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But the thing is, I'm conscious I'm doing it.

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Yeah?

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So, I go back to this letting go as soon as I can.

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Yeah?

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Keep our mouth shut.

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Yeah?

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And thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you.

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Okay?

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Because that's where you have a possibility for things to change.

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Einstein said, you know, keep doing the same thing, expecting different results.

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Insanity.

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And that's kind of, yeah?

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We are kind of insane.

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But yes, we let go.

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And many of us have plenty to let go, if you think about it.

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Yeah?

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Even blaming yourself.

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Yeah?

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Complaining of the circumstances and events.

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Always thinking that there is something out there.

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You know, that's why we are not happy.

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That's why we are not at peace.

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Justifying ourselves for the lack of results.

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Yeah?

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Always, well, it was somebody's fault, or this, or this happened, or the storm, or, yes?

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Or having to defend your position.

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I think when you really believe in yourself, you don't have to defend anything.

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Yes?

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So, one of the most important messages or advice that I received from Dr. Ijaliakala was that I had to be myself when I presented.

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I wanted to go and take classes if I was a tax accountant.

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So, I said, okay, if I'm going to teach, I have to go and take classes.

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And he said, no, that will take all your naturality.

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All you have to be is yourself.

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And could you tell the person next to you, all you have to be is yourself?

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And if you can, write it down, too.

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It's very, very, very important just to be yourself.

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What a concept.

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We are never ourselves.

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We are always being whatever, you know, other people want from us with expectations.

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We are always looking for acceptance outside of ourselves.

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And even when we get it, we are not happy.

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So, my mother used to come to visit and she used to tell me, look at the house you have and brand new cars.

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And the husband that loves you, you know, and two kids that are beautiful and healthy.

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And she would say, what's your problem?

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And I didn't know what to answer because I didn't know what my problem was.

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I didn't have it clear.

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He said, what's your problem?

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I was not happy.

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It wasn't.

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So, at one point I realized it wasn't in the cars.

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It wasn't in the houses.

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It wasn't because it was that search that never ends because we will never find it.

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The other thing that happened is that my mother passed away.

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And one of the, I have a lot of revelations and insights because of that.

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It was an amazing gift, experience and wisdom from my mother's death.

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But one of the things I realized, because we cremated her and when we went in Argentina to, to what she asked for us, you know, to spread the ashes.

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She said, I realized, I said, she went with nothing.

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That is an important concept.

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We only take our experiences.

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And that's where we came from, the experience, not to accumulate.

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So, that is a very important concept.

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Sometimes I say that we should take death really as a big teacher.

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First of all, not to be afraid because there is nothing to be afraid.

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So, realizing that we are not this, that this is temporary.

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Yeah?

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This is a suit.

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Yeah?

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We needed to come here.

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And being able to enjoy life more, to be more present.

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Yeah?

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We are never present.

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So, I think that we are more afraid of actually enjoying life than from death.

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Yes?

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But that's a good thing because sometimes you have to think, when you have a problem, sometimes you have to think,

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if I knew I would live today, this would be so important.

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Yeah?

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Or if I knew this person would go today, would I be still mad at this person?

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And sometimes you have to kind of take yourself out of the situation, be the observer.

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That's who we are.

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That's our real identity, the observer.

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Okay?

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So, we all play games, too.

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And, oops.

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We all play games.

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And what happens with the games that we play, that we don't realize they are games, yes?

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And we are kind of addicted.

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Sometimes we start these games and sometimes other people start.

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But this also takes us from out of, you know, of zero, yeah?

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Of present.

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We are not aligned.

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We are not in balance anymore.

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And definitely it takes away peace.

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And all we are looking for is peace.

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All we are looking for is happiness, yeah?

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The abundance comes, it will be added.

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You know, we always put abundance, wealth, you know, the money first.

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But it's actually the other way around.

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You become a magnet, yeah?

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When you let go.

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When you believe in yourself.

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When you're not attached.

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When you don't have expectations.

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So, some of the games that we play, yes?

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Sometimes we play the I deserve, you know, entitlement.

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So, sometimes being conscious of this.

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I don't know you guys, but in Argentina, you know, when I was little and we were playing,

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we would say, I don't play anymore.

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And we would leave.

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Yeah?

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It didn't work.

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So, we would say, I don't play anymore, yeah?

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Or when you were losing, yeah?

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With somebody, you say, I don't play anymore, yeah?

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So, why don't we do it now?

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Why don't we realize that we play these games, you know, sometimes with ourselves,

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sometimes with our romantic relationships, sometimes in business relationships, you know?

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I deserve, or I must be seen, you know?

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I'm superwoman, yeah?

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But I know what's going on inside of me, yes?

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To be that superwoman, for people to see me.

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So, also, why?

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Why am I doing it?

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Very, very important.

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Okay.

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And I'm better than, yeah?

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The thing is, we are not happy.

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First of all, we have to kind of raise, you know, or increase the effects of other people.

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But at the end, even if we confirm that we are better, we are not happy.

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And, again, we are not receiving the results, yes, that we are looking for.

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Or, I'm worse than, yeah?

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Or, I'm a victim, or things like that.

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So, if you realize you are playing that, you can just say, I'm not playing anymore, yeah?

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So, you become a child, and you realize that doesn't work for you, and you let go.

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So, it is about letting go.

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Ho'oponopono is about letting go and letting God, yeah?

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No matter what you understand by God, but let's call it a more intelligent mind than yours.

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Okay?

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A mind that thought of oceans, or mountains, or rivers, or the human body.

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What about that?

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How about that?

478
00:29:23,060 --> 00:29:23,380
Okay?

479
00:29:23,660 --> 00:29:29,700
So, there is a more intelligent mind than ours, that has all the solutions to all our problems,

480
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:33,300
but is waiting to see if we give permission, if we let them.

481
00:29:33,300 --> 00:29:43,660
So, you decide, you know, because we go through life, I know I have to remove it, but it hurts, you know, little, yeah?

482
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:45,800
Just remove it, and that's it.

483
00:29:45,980 --> 00:29:47,420
It's gone, yeah?

484
00:29:47,500 --> 00:29:48,820
So, you're going to feel the pain.

485
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:49,960
Have you heard that?

486
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:50,360
Yes?

487
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:51,040
Already.

488
00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:52,800
I'm sure pain is inevitable.

489
00:29:53,740 --> 00:29:55,560
Suffering is optional, yeah?

490
00:29:55,560 --> 00:30:02,020
So, the suffering, how many of us have relationships to let go, things that don't work in our life,

491
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:09,300
and we keep, you know, because we don't trust ourself, or we engage with the fear, or things like that.

492
00:30:09,300 --> 00:30:14,200
So, very, very important that you decide, yes, that you are ready to let go.

493
00:30:14,980 --> 00:30:21,540
So, like I said before, Ho'oponopono is, I'm sorry, please forgive me for whatever is in me that created this.

494
00:30:22,180 --> 00:30:26,740
When I learned Ho'oponopono, it wasn't the thank you and the I love you didn't exist.

495
00:30:26,740 --> 00:30:35,080
Yeah, we had to, we had a very long phrase to repeat.

496
00:30:35,500 --> 00:30:42,660
The most important thing of Ho'oponopono is how to do it all the time, because the memory is played 24 hours a day.

497
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:48,760
So, that's what we do in the seminar, you know, to train the subconscious mind to do it.

498
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:52,060
In Ho'oponopono, the subconscious mind is your inner child.

499
00:30:52,060 --> 00:30:57,180
But it's not your inner child when you were little and the things that they did to you in this lifetime,

500
00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:01,640
because that subconscious mind comes from, with you from other lifetimes.

501
00:31:01,780 --> 00:31:06,200
And all the memories that accumulated, most of our problems come from other lifetimes.

502
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:08,620
They have nothing to do with what is happening now.

503
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:16,180
You know, but we react, we engage, yes, thinking that it's the other person or the situation, and it's never that.

504
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:20,140
So, who's going to take responsibility? Who's going to turn on the light?

505
00:31:20,140 --> 00:31:22,740
And when we do it, it gets you right from everybody.

506
00:31:23,420 --> 00:31:28,960
Because I don't know if you saw that video that goes in YouTube about DNA.

507
00:31:29,460 --> 00:31:31,760
We end up all being cousins.

508
00:31:32,660 --> 00:31:34,120
Yeah, we are all family.

509
00:31:34,660 --> 00:31:38,400
And that's also the difference between spirituality and religion.

510
00:31:38,860 --> 00:31:42,180
Yeah, I don't have anything against religion, and I always tell people,

511
00:31:42,340 --> 00:31:46,920
if you find the peace and the happiness there, you have to keep, you know, with religion.

512
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:53,360
But that you are religious doesn't mean that you trust, you know, that you believe.

513
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:56,980
Yeah, and I was told that by religious people.

514
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:02,480
They said, you know, we are religious, but today you gave us a lesson about trusting.

515
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:04,240
Sometimes we do it for the wrong reasons.

516
00:32:04,340 --> 00:32:10,280
The family, what other people will say, you know, to be accepted, not to go to hell.

517
00:32:10,820 --> 00:32:11,320
Who knows?

518
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:14,320
Yes, but maybe they are not for the right reasons.

519
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:17,400
So, always the why, why we do things.

520
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:21,420
If you know why you do it, there will be things that maybe you don't like.

521
00:32:21,540 --> 00:32:24,380
So, spirituality goes beyond that.

522
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:26,600
It gives the power back to us.

523
00:32:26,780 --> 00:32:28,520
There is nobody on earth that knows.

524
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:30,040
Nobody.

525
00:32:30,420 --> 00:32:33,780
But you have the power to connect with all the wisdom of the universe.

526
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:35,940
Again, with the other antenna.

527
00:32:36,580 --> 00:32:36,740
Yeah?

528
00:32:37,140 --> 00:32:39,620
You can work with divinity directly.

529
00:32:39,620 --> 00:32:43,080
You don't need intermediaries, you know, or third parties.

530
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:52,860
So, when I learned Ho'oponopono, cleaning, because we talk about cleaning, Ho'oponopono, erasing these memories,

531
00:32:52,980 --> 00:32:58,360
it was 200,100,000 pillars of the peace of fire on myself, my family, relatives, and ancestors.

532
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:01,400
That was Ho'oponopono when I learned it.

533
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:07,820
And then we had to do mental list of the things that we thought we were cleaning with.

534
00:33:07,820 --> 00:33:09,060
Yes?

535
00:33:10,580 --> 00:33:16,740
And we would spend in the seminar 45 minutes, an hour, people writing, you know, all the boyfriends,

536
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:20,480
and all the addresses where I live, and things like that.

537
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:23,040
And then we realized that God knows everything.

538
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:25,080
Doesn't need any list.

539
00:33:26,140 --> 00:33:28,040
It's our intellect that needs the list.

540
00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:34,000
But God knows what we are ready to let go, knows why we have the problems that we have, and he has the solution.

541
00:33:34,380 --> 00:33:36,240
It's only waiting, you know?

542
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:46,300
We used to have to say 200,100,000 pillars of the peace of fire and made mental list, whatever came to mind in that moment.

543
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:49,220
And when I went blank, I had to start all over again.

544
00:33:49,380 --> 00:33:54,180
200,100,000 pillars of the peace of fire on myself, my family, relatives, and ancestors.

545
00:33:54,180 --> 00:33:58,500
And now we would repeat that, you know, 24 hours a day.

546
00:33:59,420 --> 00:34:01,280
Our subconscious mind never sleeps.

547
00:34:01,420 --> 00:34:10,060
So that's why we want to train it to clean, like we say, during the night when the intellect gets tired.

548
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:14,080
Okay, so we realized God knew everything.

549
00:34:14,340 --> 00:34:16,920
We realized he didn't need any list.

550
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:24,300
And one day, Dr. Ijaliakala heard the voice said, just tell them to say thank you.

551
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:25,600
I know what they mean.

552
00:34:26,540 --> 00:34:26,760
Okay?

553
00:34:27,420 --> 00:34:35,760
And that's when a lot of very easy tools came, because we have many, plenty.

554
00:34:36,140 --> 00:34:36,260
Okay?

555
00:34:36,420 --> 00:34:38,780
One day I asked Ijaliakala, why so many tools?

556
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:40,720
Why not just thank you and I love you?

557
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:45,180
And his response was, different tastes.

558
00:34:45,180 --> 00:34:47,360
We have for all tastes.

559
00:34:48,860 --> 00:34:52,540
So the thank you replaced the I'm sorry, please forgive me.

560
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:54,080
God already knows what we are doing.

561
00:34:54,180 --> 00:34:56,840
We are giving permission to be raised.

562
00:34:56,940 --> 00:34:59,240
We are giving permission for the help to come.

563
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:04,060
And all I have to say, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you,

564
00:35:04,060 --> 00:35:08,220
instead of engaging, yes, with the stories.

565
00:35:08,220 --> 00:35:11,160
Because we keep telling ourselves stories.

566
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:14,860
We are creating it and we are buying it.

567
00:35:15,180 --> 00:35:20,540
So, first of all, I already told you about the difference or not.

568
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:24,320
I spoke a little bit about guilt versus responsibility.

569
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:30,420
I felt free for the first time in my life when I realized I was 100% responsible.

570
00:35:30,420 --> 00:35:38,400
Because my thought was, oh, I am 100% responsible, so it means I created it.

571
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:42,080
I said, if I created it, I can change it.

572
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:45,220
Otherwise, you are giving your power away.

573
00:35:45,780 --> 00:35:49,400
You are waiting always for other people to change.

574
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:50,960
And I'm still doing it.

575
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:57,400
I have areas of my life that I'm still waiting for people to change.

576
00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:00,580
But guilt is not a relief.

577
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:04,580
It's not a nice feeling.

578
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:07,220
And you are hurting yourself.

579
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:10,320
It's one of the worst feelings you can have.

580
00:36:10,700 --> 00:36:11,120
Guilt.

581
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:18,540
One day, you have to get to the point that it says, I love myself too much.

582
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:20,100
I'm not going to hurt myself anymore.

583
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:24,280
So, you are going to do things that really work for you.

584
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:28,920
One thing that I learned with Ho'oponopono was just to put myself first.

585
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:32,260
Instead of pleasing other people.

586
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:37,420
Because if you do it, and you are not happy, if you are sacrificing, yes?

587
00:36:37,660 --> 00:36:40,220
If it doesn't work for you, it will not work for them.

588
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:43,160
And everybody feels that, yes?

589
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:45,160
So, it doesn't work.

590
00:36:45,980 --> 00:36:47,780
So, again, thank you.

591
00:36:48,540 --> 00:36:49,340
I love you.

592
00:36:49,500 --> 00:36:50,780
I came to replace that.

593
00:36:50,980 --> 00:36:53,740
So, what we are doing in Ho'oponopono, we are taking responsibility.

594
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:55,740
I'm sorry for whatever is in me.

595
00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:57,000
Okay?

596
00:36:57,000 --> 00:37:01,580
How many of you know the work of Dr. Emoto?

597
00:37:02,620 --> 00:37:02,860
Yeah?

598
00:37:02,940 --> 00:37:09,260
The Japanese doctor that did the whole study of the effect of our thoughts in the water.

599
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:09,980
Yeah?

600
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:11,280
And we are mostly water.

601
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:19,180
So, the worst thing that we can do is think bad about ourselves and feeling we don't deserve it

602
00:37:19,180 --> 00:37:20,920
or feeling we are not good enough.

603
00:37:21,380 --> 00:37:26,800
So, the left one, just in case there is somebody that never seen this, is water.

604
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:36,740
Seen through a microscope when we say to the water, I hate you, or you are stupid, you are bad.

605
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:37,100
Yeah?

606
00:37:37,100 --> 00:37:40,700
And the other one is when you say thank you, or you say I love you.

607
00:37:41,060 --> 00:37:43,100
He did studies with rice.

608
00:37:43,300 --> 00:37:47,220
A lot of people are doing it now with kids in schools.

609
00:37:47,220 --> 00:38:01,940
So, he put three containers with white rice, and he put in one, he put I love you, the other one they put, I don't know, I hate you, or you are stupid, and the other one they ignore.

610
00:38:01,940 --> 00:38:02,420
Yeah?

611
00:38:02,420 --> 00:38:03,020
Yeah?

612
00:38:03,020 --> 00:38:10,080
So, after, I don't know if it was after 30 days or something like that, and the study is, they show it in YouTube.

613
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:16,660
So, after a certain time, yeah, the one that they put, I love you, stayed white.

614
00:38:17,020 --> 00:38:18,000
The rice was okay.

615
00:38:18,580 --> 00:38:19,780
It didn't smell nothing.

616
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:25,340
The one that they put, I hate you, yeah, it turned, it rotten.

617
00:38:25,340 --> 00:38:32,580
And the one that they ignore, worms grow from it, yeah?

618
00:38:32,700 --> 00:38:38,060
So, these are things that you can do at home, too, and try it, if you don't believe me.

619
00:38:38,620 --> 00:38:42,740
So, I would like to show you a video from Ikea.

620
00:38:42,900 --> 00:38:44,240
I don't know if you've seen this.

621
00:38:44,940 --> 00:38:49,260
So, I would like to share this for you to see the power of our thoughts.

622
00:38:49,260 --> 00:39:02,960
Can you all read, or do you want me to read?

623
00:39:04,060 --> 00:39:09,280
At Ikea, we believe, so they went the extra mile to spray some positivity.

624
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:15,820
So, they picked two plants from their own store.

625
00:39:15,820 --> 00:39:21,780
They placed it at treasures in a school.

626
00:39:22,620 --> 00:39:26,000
The two of them, the same, at the same time.

627
00:39:27,380 --> 00:39:32,120
And they asked the students to recall messages to the plants.

628
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:36,100
To one plant, they would say nice things, and the other one, they bullied.

629
00:39:36,820 --> 00:39:38,620
Seeing you blossom makes me happy.

630
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:40,520
You're making a difference in the world.

631
00:39:40,740 --> 00:39:41,820
You are beautiful.

632
00:39:41,820 --> 00:39:45,940
I brought them here to see the plant.

633
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:49,380
They said, I came here to watch the plant being bullied.

634
00:39:49,500 --> 00:39:50,080
It's not normal.

635
00:39:50,900 --> 00:39:52,120
This is not normal.

636
00:39:55,620 --> 00:39:58,800
So, the students were recording the messages.

637
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:01,080
I think it's an excellent project.

638
00:40:01,620 --> 00:40:08,500
To have something tangible that it could actually physically be a part of is, I think, going to be very powerful.

639
00:40:08,500 --> 00:40:11,800
So, it's a powerful experiment for the kids to see.

640
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:16,840
So, after 30 days, the results spoke for themselves.

641
00:40:17,340 --> 00:40:21,060
I started noticing that the one that was being bullied started coming to...

642
00:40:21,060 --> 00:40:24,060
Look what happened to the plant that was bullied 30 days later.

643
00:40:24,060 --> 00:40:28,320
Well, the plant that was being complimented, it was flourishing and beautiful.

644
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:36,120
It's raised the profile massively of different forms of bullying and the effects that bullying can have on people.

645
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:48,200
We aim to create happier communities for a better every day with this initiative and share it with the world.

646
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:53,880
So, that's where our power is, our thoughts.

647
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:55,320
It can definitely affect other people.

648
00:40:55,940 --> 00:40:59,140
He says, if affected a plant, it definitely can affect other people.

649
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:02,500
And sometimes it's only thinking about it.

650
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:03,960
You don't even have to say it.

651
00:41:04,900 --> 00:41:06,080
Just thinking about it.

652
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:17,100
So, I'll show you this just to show you how powerful we are and why a simple thank you or a simple I love you could work.

653
00:41:18,780 --> 00:41:23,340
And why is what I call it the easiest way if we practice it.

654
00:41:23,580 --> 00:41:24,860
It's not about knowing it.

655
00:41:24,980 --> 00:41:25,860
You have to practice.

656
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:26,920
Yeah?

657
00:41:27,580 --> 00:41:29,220
Especially when the problems come.

658
00:41:29,220 --> 00:41:32,980
The problems are not the problem, but our reaction to the problem is the problem.

659
00:41:32,980 --> 00:41:40,140
So, if you choose to do this, it's about letting go, letting go of the reaction, letting go of the perception.

660
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:44,960
Remember, we don't see the same thing that others see.

661
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:47,760
Because we all come with our own memories.

662
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:48,580
Yes?

663
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:49,740
And our own programs.

664
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:51,640
So, we don't see the same thing.

665
00:41:51,720 --> 00:41:54,120
We don't understand how other people cannot see it.

666
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:57,400
But because we have different programs.

667
00:41:57,760 --> 00:42:00,220
Now that we work with computers, we understand, no?

668
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:01,400
Different programs.

669
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:06,580
And all that is in our subconscious mind.

670
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:10,780
So, very important to realize how powerful we are.

671
00:42:11,300 --> 00:42:13,640
And this is one of my favorites.

672
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:19,040
This represents Morna, also Ijaliakala's teacher.

673
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:22,720
When she was little, she was afraid to cross the street.

674
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:24,700
So, she would ask for help.

675
00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:28,640
And she would see a huge hand coming from heaven and crossing her.

676
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:35,700
Now, I have to tell you, I have students, many students in the world that have seen their hand, too.

677
00:42:37,300 --> 00:42:43,940
And many students that see things that I cannot see, or I see them in a different way.

678
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:47,380
Yeah, I have a certain perception.

679
00:42:47,620 --> 00:42:49,260
Yeah, but I cannot see how they see.

680
00:42:49,260 --> 00:42:56,080
And lately, I realize that Ijaliakala always told me, you don't want to see.

681
00:42:57,060 --> 00:42:58,000
It's really scary.

682
00:42:59,000 --> 00:42:59,160
Yes?

683
00:42:59,620 --> 00:43:08,040
So, and now when I have all these people writing me, because it's like these people are coming out more.

684
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:16,200
Yeah, these people never shared what they could see, or hear, or what they knew, because they were afraid to be burned again.

685
00:43:17,260 --> 00:43:17,580
Yes?

686
00:43:17,660 --> 00:43:22,820
Or they were afraid that they were put in a mental hospital.

687
00:43:23,020 --> 00:43:26,900
Ijaliakala always told me, you know, I could have ended up in a mental hospital.

688
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:28,020
Yeah?

689
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:31,580
And he would say, could we stop the radio for five minutes?

690
00:43:31,700 --> 00:43:33,240
You know, or the movie?

691
00:43:33,240 --> 00:43:35,740
And he would hear the voice and say, no.

692
00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:40,980
So now when people tell me what happens in my seminars, I say, thank God I don't see.

693
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:45,120
Because there are great things that are happening, but they are very distracted.

694
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:53,140
So I remember now that when we did the training with Ijaliakala, every 20 minutes he would take a break.

695
00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:54,500
He would say, break.

696
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:58,720
And everybody would look at me like, we just came from break, you know.

697
00:43:59,660 --> 00:44:03,000
But, yeah, I realized it was overwhelming.

698
00:44:03,240 --> 00:44:06,640
To give a class with all those things happening.

699
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:09,820
So what do we do with Ho'oponopono?

700
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:12,980
We count our mind and we take control.

701
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:16,320
So how many of you, when I say let go, say, let go?

702
00:44:16,740 --> 00:44:19,500
No, I learned, somebody told me, use your hip.

703
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:20,960
Yeah?

704
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:24,400
Or they said, you are not worried, you are irresponsible.

705
00:44:26,100 --> 00:44:28,040
The wrong messages.

706
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:28,280
Yes.

707
00:44:29,340 --> 00:44:33,500
So one day I told my son, I said, life could be easy.

708
00:44:33,900 --> 00:44:37,900
And he looked at me and he said, that's not what you used to tell me.

709
00:44:39,240 --> 00:44:42,420
And I said, I know, but now I know a little bit better.

710
00:44:42,420 --> 00:44:50,140
So it could be as hard or as difficult or as easy or, you know, as we make it.

711
00:44:50,220 --> 00:44:51,820
We make our life.

712
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:53,220
It's not the president.

713
00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:54,460
It's not your neighbor.

714
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:56,320
It's not your partner.

715
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:57,720
It's us.

716
00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:02,280
And when you do that, when you realize that, you set yourself free.

717
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:09,540
So how do we calm our minds?

718
00:45:09,580 --> 00:45:10,640
And we are going to see now.

719
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:17,780
But just realize that when you talk about how bad your reality is, you attract more of what you don't like.

720
00:45:19,260 --> 00:45:21,020
Where do we put our energy?

721
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:22,440
Where do we put our attention?

722
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:24,280
Because we are like cameras.

723
00:45:24,580 --> 00:45:24,760
Yes?

724
00:45:25,060 --> 00:45:28,800
So whatever we focus on, that's what we get.

725
00:45:29,980 --> 00:45:30,740
Realizing that.

726
00:45:30,740 --> 00:45:32,960
And maybe in that moment, I need to breathe.

727
00:45:33,580 --> 00:45:35,140
I need to go and hug a tree.

728
00:45:35,780 --> 00:45:36,620
Go for a walk.

729
00:45:37,260 --> 00:45:37,480
Yes?

730
00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:40,820
But no, we are trying, you know, to always resolve things.

731
00:45:41,180 --> 00:45:42,540
And again, from intellect.

732
00:45:42,940 --> 00:45:44,720
The intellect knows how to create a problem.

733
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:46,380
Doesn't know how to find a solution.

734
00:45:46,940 --> 00:45:49,080
The solutions always come from inspiration.

735
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:52,520
When you're taking a shower, you're connecting with nature.

736
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:53,120
Yes?

737
00:45:55,280 --> 00:46:00,220
So when you are against something or somebody, yes?

738
00:46:00,740 --> 00:46:02,040
It's like, wow.

739
00:46:02,300 --> 00:46:07,320
Have you noticed that those days that you don't sleep well, it looks like nobody slept well that day?

740
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:09,960
Everything is against you.

741
00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:11,020
Nothing works.

742
00:46:11,220 --> 00:46:11,420
Yes?

743
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:13,460
So it could be that it's us.

744
00:46:13,940 --> 00:46:14,200
Yes?

745
00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:18,380
When you are worried about something, you are trapped more of that.

746
00:46:18,540 --> 00:46:19,840
You are trapped more worried.

747
00:46:20,020 --> 00:46:21,000
Things get worse.

748
00:46:21,460 --> 00:46:23,700
And you have to know that everything will pass.

749
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:25,520
Everything.

750
00:46:25,740 --> 00:46:29,420
So in that moment, it's changing the channel.

751
00:46:30,180 --> 00:46:30,440
Yes?

752
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:43,120
In that moment, realizing you've been listening to the channel that it is, you know, about luck, about not enough, about injustice, and many other things.

753
00:46:43,420 --> 00:46:43,600
Yeah?

754
00:46:43,740 --> 00:46:45,440
Or victimhood, even.

755
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:52,460
So one day, you have to wake up and realize who you are spending your time with, what are you talking about.

756
00:46:53,060 --> 00:46:57,080
Because time is the most precious things we have here.

757
00:46:57,780 --> 00:46:59,000
It's not about the money.

758
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:00,740
It's about how we invest our time.

759
00:47:01,420 --> 00:47:01,580
Yeah?

760
00:47:01,580 --> 00:47:04,660
Or how, what we do, what we do, what we love.

761
00:47:05,180 --> 00:47:06,000
Very important.

762
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:08,740
For me, that's the basic, and we are going to work on that today.

763
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:12,840
Because for me, a perfect world is one that we all do what we love.

764
00:47:14,420 --> 00:47:14,860
Yeah?

765
00:47:14,940 --> 00:47:20,840
Instead of, because of my career, because my mom told me, because, well, my luck.

766
00:47:21,420 --> 00:47:21,560
Yeah?

767
00:47:21,780 --> 00:47:24,020
So each choice has a consequence.

768
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:26,000
And not choosing is a choice.

769
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:28,400
Like I said, we are choosing all the time.

770
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:31,900
So if you are not doing consciously, you are still choosing.

771
00:47:32,460 --> 00:47:36,260
You are choosing for the subconscious mind to keep replaying.

772
00:47:36,380 --> 00:47:36,540
Yeah?

773
00:47:36,980 --> 00:47:40,940
And playing the same thing, choosing the same thing.

774
00:47:41,260 --> 00:47:43,180
You can always choose your attitude.

775
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:45,260
When you change your attitude, that's it.

776
00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:47,080
That's it.

777
00:47:47,500 --> 00:47:49,240
So we need to start practicing.

778
00:47:49,420 --> 00:47:52,080
Like I said, it's not about knowing, but I need to practice.

779
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:55,460
So, like I said before, it's changing the station.

780
00:47:56,600 --> 00:47:56,780
Yeah?

781
00:47:56,780 --> 00:47:58,240
We have different stations.

782
00:47:58,400 --> 00:47:58,760
Here.

783
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:01,380
We have a choice of changing stations.

784
00:48:01,540 --> 00:48:04,540
And it could be in that moment that says, I'm changing stations.

785
00:48:04,660 --> 00:48:06,480
This one is not working for me.

786
00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:07,220
Yeah?

787
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:13,700
So knowing that we can change that emotional vibration because we are energy.

788
00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:14,540
Yeah?

789
00:48:14,580 --> 00:48:16,360
So we attract based on our energy.

790
00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:21,440
That's why if we slept bad, looks like everybody slept bad that day.

791
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:25,640
Because we are responsible for what we attract.

792
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:28,700
So we are going to go into this in a minute.

793
00:48:28,700 --> 00:48:32,560
But I want to show you this emotional awareness.

794
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:33,800
Yeah?

795
00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:37,760
It's not the best picture.

796
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:38,260
Yeah?

797
00:48:38,260 --> 00:48:47,880
But what energy are you at to pretend or to expect, you know, different results?

798
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:54,240
So this is an amazing chart where it shows shame is the lowest vibration.

799
00:48:54,240 --> 00:48:54,600
Yeah?

800
00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:54,640
Yeah?

801
00:48:54,880 --> 00:49:00,020
20, guilt, 30, apathy, 50, grief, 75, fear, 75.

802
00:49:00,580 --> 00:49:00,840
Yeah?

803
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:04,080
Pride, anger, desire are the lowest.

804
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:08,260
But look how when you go to neutrality, you are just okay.

805
00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:09,960
Already you are okay.

806
00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:10,480
Yeah?

807
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:13,440
So neutrality, that's what Ho'oponopono does.

808
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:16,380
It brings us to this balance, to this alignment.

809
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:16,980
Yeah?

810
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:18,260
Be one with God.

811
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:19,280
Yeah?

812
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:20,160
Not engaging.

813
00:49:20,580 --> 00:49:20,860
Yes?

814
00:49:20,860 --> 00:49:26,260
So as soon as you go to neutral, you are in the positive.

815
00:49:26,700 --> 00:49:26,800
Yeah?

816
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:33,940
As soon as you are willing to take responsibility, you say, oh, or maybe it could be that it's

817
00:49:33,940 --> 00:49:35,380
easier than what I thought.

818
00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:40,240
Or maybe I'm not alone.

819
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:40,860
You know?

820
00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:42,500
My willingness to believe.

821
00:49:43,020 --> 00:49:44,480
My willingness to let go.

822
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:49,440
My willingness to let go of being right or having the last word that doesn't bring peace

823
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:50,280
or happiness.

824
00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:52,140
Even when I achieve it.

825
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:52,480
Okay?

826
00:49:53,020 --> 00:49:54,260
Look at acceptance.

827
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:58,800
Accepting that everything is perfect the way it is.

828
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:02,460
Accepting.

829
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:05,360
Accepting that God knows better than us.

830
00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:08,480
That we don't know what is right.

831
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:10,040
Becoming more humble.

832
00:50:11,720 --> 00:50:11,860
Yeah?

833
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:14,200
So just accepting it puts us.

834
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:16,280
And well, then you have enlightenment.

835
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:17,780
We are just not here anymore.

836
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:19,300
We are light.

837
00:50:19,300 --> 00:50:20,000
Yeah?

838
00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:20,820
We disappear.

839
00:50:21,660 --> 00:50:22,720
But look at peace.

840
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:23,480
600.

841
00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:25,620
Just to be at peace.

842
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:27,660
And that's what Ho'oponopono can do for you.

843
00:50:27,940 --> 00:50:31,880
You might have a lot of problems around you, but you are at peace.

844
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:32,700
Yeah?

845
00:50:32,700 --> 00:50:33,740
You check with yourself.

846
00:50:34,220 --> 00:50:34,400
Yeah?

847
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:35,540
And a lot of things happening.

848
00:50:35,940 --> 00:50:38,480
It's like, you know, you are in the eye of the hurricane.

849
00:50:38,900 --> 00:50:39,100
Yeah?

850
00:50:39,100 --> 00:50:42,640
So you see it's happening, but you are safe here.

851
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:50,340
The thing is, we go into, because we want to analyze, you know, we want to understand.

852
00:50:51,340 --> 00:50:51,480
Yeah?

853
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:53,540
And then we get into trouble.

854
00:50:53,540 --> 00:50:58,080
So when you forgive.

855
00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:00,920
So if we don't forgive, we are hurting ourselves.

856
00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:09,400
Have you heard that of not forgiving is about taking the poison, expecting the other one to die?

857
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:10,680
Yeah?

858
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:11,940
You take it and say, what?

859
00:51:12,020 --> 00:51:13,220
Two years and still alive?

860
00:51:13,740 --> 00:51:14,560
What happened?

861
00:51:15,060 --> 00:51:15,660
Yeah?

862
00:51:15,660 --> 00:51:19,880
But those two years, you hurt yourself, really, you know?

863
00:51:19,980 --> 00:51:25,880
So, again, and you kept, you know, you were living in the past.

864
00:51:26,220 --> 00:51:29,900
So when you forgive, yeah, it's a gift to yourself.

865
00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:33,140
And I'm going to tell you something when I'm learning Ho'oponopono.

866
00:51:33,240 --> 00:51:34,680
It's not about talking to anybody.

867
00:51:35,300 --> 00:51:36,660
It's forgiving in your heart.

868
00:51:36,780 --> 00:51:37,760
It's working on you.

869
00:51:38,380 --> 00:51:41,560
It's not about having to go and tell the person you forgive them.

870
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:44,800
It's about forgiving inside of you that you don't hurt.

871
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:46,860
And how do I know if I forgive?

872
00:51:46,980 --> 00:51:50,120
It's I think in that person, and I just don't have that reaction anymore.

873
00:51:50,580 --> 00:51:50,720
Yeah?

874
00:51:50,980 --> 00:51:52,860
So I'm free from the reaction.

875
00:51:53,140 --> 00:51:54,900
That doesn't mean I forgot.

876
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:56,440
Yeah?

877
00:51:56,600 --> 00:51:59,440
Because some people say, no, no, I need to, yeah?

878
00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:07,060
No, it's maybe I don't, I didn't forget, but I don't have that reaction.

879
00:52:07,340 --> 00:52:07,560
Yeah?

880
00:52:07,580 --> 00:52:10,640
When I think of that person or what they did to me or things like that.

881
00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:14,420
So I can set myself free, and I can come back to present.

882
00:52:14,420 --> 00:52:19,160
And I can open doors, because actually forgiveness opens doors.

883
00:52:19,940 --> 00:52:22,480
So forgiveness is like the oil to a machine.

884
00:52:22,740 --> 00:52:24,080
It makes the wheels move.

885
00:52:24,900 --> 00:52:25,040
Yeah?

886
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:26,300
Otherwise, we are stuck.

887
00:52:27,140 --> 00:52:28,560
It's like the law of gravity.

888
00:52:28,980 --> 00:52:33,220
Its power is invisible, but its effect is extraordinary.

889
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:38,140
So the forgiveness is included in the Ho'oponopono.

890
00:52:38,140 --> 00:52:41,700
But I would like to ask you to close your eyes.

891
00:52:44,980 --> 00:52:47,140
And we take a deep breath.

892
00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:54,140
Many times we tell ourselves, but I cannot forgive.

893
00:52:54,140 --> 00:53:12,040
To forgive takes strength, real strength, real strength of mind, real strength of mind and heart to put peace above your anger, your upset.

894
00:53:12,040 --> 00:53:16,600
It doesn't mean condoning what they did.

895
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:22,040
It means accepting that they, just like you, are human.

896
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:24,580
And they make mistakes, too.

897
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:26,500
You can forgive.

898
00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:30,780
It is your divine nature to forgive.

899
00:53:30,780 --> 00:53:42,200
Because when truly humble, we realize we are united, and in not knowing what to do, we do the best we can.

900
00:53:42,780 --> 00:53:44,240
None of us are blameless.

901
00:53:45,300 --> 00:53:51,160
When we forgive another, we only set the other, but ourself free.

902
00:53:52,220 --> 00:53:54,000
It is a win-win situation.

903
00:53:55,300 --> 00:53:58,060
Sometimes we tell ourselves, but they don't deserve it.

904
00:53:58,060 --> 00:54:02,000
Well, the sun shines on everyone.

905
00:54:02,980 --> 00:54:06,440
It doesn't decide who deserves its light and who doesn't.

906
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:09,420
True love is unconditional.

907
00:54:10,980 --> 00:54:17,940
And until we ourselves have attained perfection, who are we to judge others?

908
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:23,020
Sometimes we have this voice that says, but they are not sorry.

909
00:54:23,020 --> 00:54:31,520
Some people believe that if the person is not remorseful, they cannot be forgiven.

910
00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:33,900
This is not true.

911
00:54:35,500 --> 00:54:41,140
The transformative, the powerful point here is to forgive anyway.

912
00:54:41,980 --> 00:54:43,200
To love anyway.

913
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:45,140
To be kind anyway.

914
00:54:46,380 --> 00:54:52,720
Choose forgiveness over being right, and inner peace will curl up in your lap.

915
00:54:54,020 --> 00:54:56,060
Anger is not a bad thing.

916
00:54:56,320 --> 00:54:57,540
Anger is energy.

917
00:54:59,020 --> 00:55:00,200
Pure energy.

918
00:55:01,580 --> 00:55:03,940
When anger arises, be aware of it.

919
00:55:05,100 --> 00:55:07,080
And see a miracle happen.

920
00:55:07,620 --> 00:55:09,940
When anger arises, be aware of it.

921
00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:13,660
And if you are aware, you will be surprised.

922
00:55:14,480 --> 00:55:16,780
Maybe the greatest surprise in your life.

923
00:55:16,780 --> 00:55:21,220
As you become aware, anger disappears.

924
00:55:22,540 --> 00:55:23,580
Anger is transformed.

925
00:55:24,660 --> 00:55:26,500
Anger becomes pure energy.

926
00:55:27,660 --> 00:55:30,200
Anger becomes compassion, forgiveness.

927
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:33,000
It becomes love.

928
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:37,460
So there is no need for anybody to suffer.

929
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:38,760
Just be aware.

930
00:55:39,580 --> 00:55:41,000
Let awareness be there.

931
00:55:42,300 --> 00:55:46,440
Anger will arise and will be consumed by awareness.

932
00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:50,160
One cannot be angry if he is aware.

933
00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:54,700
And one cannot be greedy with awareness.

934
00:55:55,380 --> 00:55:57,840
And one cannot be jealous with awareness.

935
00:55:58,820 --> 00:56:03,100
Awareness is really the golden key.

936
00:56:03,100 --> 00:56:06,360
So we take a deep breath.

937
00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:12,360
We choose to be morning day.

938
00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:15,580
Here and now.

939
00:56:15,580 --> 00:56:24,320
So I, everybody has paper and pencil by any chance?

940
00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:25,520
Yes.

941
00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:25,960
Okay.

942
00:56:26,300 --> 00:56:28,900
So living in the present is to be at peace.

943
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:29,280
Yeah.

944
00:56:29,380 --> 00:56:31,340
So you always check with yourself.

945
00:56:31,620 --> 00:56:31,880
Yeah.

946
00:56:31,980 --> 00:56:33,680
Not if you don't have any problems.

947
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:37,080
So they are waiting for everything, you know, to happen or solve.

948
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:38,760
You check with yourself.

949
00:56:38,860 --> 00:56:39,760
Am I at peace?

950
00:56:39,980 --> 00:56:41,160
You know, am I present?

951
00:56:41,620 --> 00:56:41,840
Okay.

952
00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:45,900
So remember, depression is too much of the past.

953
00:56:46,780 --> 00:56:46,960
Yeah.

954
00:56:47,720 --> 00:56:50,080
And anxiety is too much of the future.

955
00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:52,380
And your job is to bring you back to present.

956
00:56:52,540 --> 00:56:56,760
So the thank you, the I love you, in Ho'oponopono brings you back to present.

957
00:56:57,220 --> 00:56:59,120
And that's where you want to live.

958
00:56:59,240 --> 00:56:59,500
Okay.

959
00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:01,760
We talk about this energy.

960
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:04,340
I just want you to know that you are very special.

961
00:57:05,860 --> 00:57:06,120
Okay.

962
00:57:06,300 --> 00:57:07,840
Maybe you want to take a picture.

963
00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:12,420
Maybe you want to do somebody else, not Mabel Katz, but the accountant.

964
00:57:12,940 --> 00:57:13,660
But, okay.

965
00:57:14,020 --> 00:57:16,400
But just know that you are very special.

966
00:57:16,660 --> 00:57:16,800
Okay.

967
00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:17,600
You are unique.

968
00:57:17,800 --> 00:57:18,620
Did you know that?

969
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:20,740
You are unique.

970
00:57:20,900 --> 00:57:22,180
You have unique talents.

971
00:57:22,360 --> 00:57:26,040
Nobody can do what you do or how you do it.

972
00:57:26,220 --> 00:57:26,400
Yeah.

973
00:57:26,460 --> 00:57:27,300
We are all unique.

974
00:57:27,400 --> 00:57:30,100
We all have unique talents.

975
00:57:30,100 --> 00:57:35,960
So we are so used to being complicated that we reject whatever is simple.

976
00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:37,700
So Ho'oponopono is too simple.

977
00:57:38,660 --> 00:57:38,920
Okay.

978
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:44,920
So some of you will say, you know, no, it cannot be this easy.

979
00:57:47,260 --> 00:57:51,100
We are so used to unhappiness that we have happiness suspicious.

980
00:57:52,420 --> 00:57:57,480
So how many of you think if somebody is very happy, you think, oh, they might be smoking something?

981
00:57:58,940 --> 00:57:59,460
Yes.

982
00:57:59,960 --> 00:58:01,340
But that's our minds.

983
00:58:01,340 --> 00:58:04,640
We have to recognize we are suspicious of happiness.

984
00:58:05,580 --> 00:58:05,720
Okay.

985
00:58:06,140 --> 00:58:13,020
So all we have to do is realize that this should be our center.

986
00:58:13,140 --> 00:58:14,060
This is our target.

987
00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:15,980
That's it.

988
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:19,300
We have to do it for the next generation.

989
00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:24,760
If you have kids, if you have grandkids, your job is to become happy.

990
00:58:24,800 --> 00:58:27,800
Because they learn from your example, not for what you say.

991
00:58:27,800 --> 00:58:32,080
So people can tell you a lot of things, but you observe.

992
00:58:32,240 --> 00:58:32,440
Yes.

993
00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:33,180
We all observe.

994
00:58:34,100 --> 00:58:35,600
It's easy to observe others.

995
00:58:35,820 --> 00:58:35,940
Yeah.

996
00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:37,660
It's hard to observe ourselves.

997
00:58:37,860 --> 00:58:40,160
But we all can tell.

998
00:58:40,900 --> 00:58:41,060
Yeah.

999
00:58:41,120 --> 00:58:42,440
So there are no lies.

1000
00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:50,180
So it's very important to get that backpack, you know, the heavy backpack, the heavy suitcase,

1001
00:58:50,180 --> 00:58:55,240
you know, full of being the perfect parents, or I have to know it all, or something.

1002
00:58:55,400 --> 00:58:57,040
Show yourself vulnerable.

1003
00:58:57,560 --> 00:58:59,380
Show that you are learning, too.

1004
00:58:59,560 --> 00:59:01,020
You are doing the best you can, too.

1005
00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:03,960
Okay.

1006
00:59:04,220 --> 00:59:09,900
So one of the things to be yourself is that you start acting yourself.

1007
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:11,520
Some people will not like it.

1008
00:59:11,880 --> 00:59:15,080
But it's okay, because what is important is what you think of yourself,

1009
00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:17,020
not what other people think of you.

1010
00:59:17,660 --> 00:59:17,900
Yeah.

1011
00:59:17,900 --> 00:59:19,800
And everything will come.

1012
00:59:19,940 --> 00:59:21,200
Everything will be added.

1013
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:22,060
Yeah.

1014
00:59:22,400 --> 00:59:24,940
But in life, we do the reverse.

1015
00:59:25,620 --> 00:59:25,800
Yeah.

1016
00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:27,880
We think we are what we have.

1017
00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:32,400
Oh, if I have so much money in the bank, you know, if I can do this or that,

1018
00:59:32,460 --> 00:59:37,100
if I drive a certain car or something, and I think that I am what I have,

1019
00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:38,360
and we live for that.

1020
00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:39,700
Yes.

1021
00:59:39,780 --> 00:59:42,920
But it's the other way around, just being ourselves.

1022
00:59:43,540 --> 00:59:43,700
Yeah.

1023
00:59:43,840 --> 00:59:44,760
Trusting ourselves.

1024
00:59:45,820 --> 00:59:46,700
Being present.

1025
00:59:46,700 --> 00:59:51,520
So do you know the difference between talents and abilities?

1026
00:59:52,120 --> 00:59:52,320
Yeah.

1027
00:59:52,440 --> 00:59:53,740
We all went to school.

1028
00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:55,740
I have the ability to prepare taxes.

1029
00:59:57,140 --> 00:59:57,280
Yeah.

1030
00:59:58,920 --> 01:00:01,060
But talent is something natural.

1031
01:00:01,260 --> 01:00:02,720
You don't know where it's coming from.

1032
01:00:02,820 --> 01:00:03,580
You are good at it.

1033
01:00:03,660 --> 01:00:05,540
People tell you, oh, you do that so well.

1034
01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:07,360
And you say, oh, everybody can do it.

1035
01:00:07,420 --> 01:00:08,940
No, not everybody can do it.

1036
01:00:08,940 --> 01:00:13,320
So sometimes we don't give ourselves enough credit.

1037
01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:21,200
So I'm going to take you through an exercise that it helped me to get even more clear about my talents.

1038
01:00:21,700 --> 01:00:26,960
And I would like you to just be as natural as you can when you answer these questions.

1039
01:00:26,960 --> 01:00:28,980
So there will be four questions.

1040
01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:33,240
But the first three, just ask them short.

1041
01:00:34,080 --> 01:00:34,240
Yeah.

1042
01:00:34,240 --> 01:00:39,080
Because the fourth one is just putting the previous three together.

1043
01:00:39,420 --> 01:00:42,380
So something that you remember when I ask you this.

1044
01:00:42,380 --> 01:00:48,780
So first I have one very important question before we do this.

1045
01:00:48,780 --> 01:00:55,760
And I want you to write down what the first thing it comes without thinking.

1046
01:00:56,440 --> 01:01:03,620
A lot of people confuse Ho'oponopono because they think he's doing nothing.

1047
01:01:03,780 --> 01:01:05,980
First of all, you do a lot when you say thank you.

1048
01:01:06,360 --> 01:01:06,580
Okay.

1049
01:01:06,620 --> 01:01:08,300
Remember, you are coming back to present.

1050
01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:09,900
You are giving permission to God.

1051
01:01:09,900 --> 01:01:15,280
You know, allowing for the help to come, et cetera, et cetera.

1052
01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:21,900
So letting go is work because it's completely outside of our comfort zone.

1053
01:01:22,600 --> 01:01:22,700
Okay.

1054
01:01:23,780 --> 01:01:26,100
So inspiration comes.

1055
01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:31,820
Ho'oponopono is about acting from inspiration, speaking from inspiration.

1056
01:01:32,020 --> 01:01:34,660
So not thinking, being more spontaneous.

1057
01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:37,220
That's why we need to start thinking as kids again.

1058
01:01:38,460 --> 01:01:42,660
So what is the first thing that comes when I ask you this question?

1059
01:01:42,660 --> 01:01:45,160
And again, it could be ridiculous today.

1060
01:01:45,700 --> 01:01:46,480
Write it down.

1061
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:47,340
Okay.

1062
01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:56,380
So what is the first thing that comes to your mind when I say, what would you do even if you don't get paid because you love it?

1063
01:01:57,100 --> 01:01:58,720
It gives you so much enjoyment.

1064
01:01:59,660 --> 01:02:02,180
You know, you wouldn't even charge for doing that.

1065
01:02:02,600 --> 01:02:02,800
You know.

1066
01:02:04,820 --> 01:02:07,640
How are you going to charge for that if it's natural in you?

1067
01:02:07,700 --> 01:02:08,320
You love it.

1068
01:02:08,420 --> 01:02:09,640
You enjoy it.

1069
01:02:10,460 --> 01:02:10,980
Okay.

1070
01:02:10,980 --> 01:02:15,540
And then you will have the possibility to share with others.

1071
01:02:15,920 --> 01:02:21,460
But now it comes, yeah, because now we are going to build on that.

1072
01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:25,480
So here comes the four questions.

1073
01:02:25,580 --> 01:02:26,280
The first one.

1074
01:02:27,060 --> 01:02:29,360
Please write down two talents of yours.

1075
01:02:30,620 --> 01:02:31,000
Okay.

1076
01:02:31,100 --> 01:02:33,720
When you say two talents, maybe you have more than two.

1077
01:02:34,160 --> 01:02:37,020
But when I say, you know, write two talents of yours.

1078
01:02:37,020 --> 01:02:40,200
And let me give you some examples.

1079
01:02:40,340 --> 01:02:42,240
Some people sometimes say, I don't have any.

1080
01:02:42,640 --> 01:02:43,800
You know, I came late.

1081
01:02:44,220 --> 01:02:47,040
And there were no talents left.

1082
01:02:47,040 --> 01:02:51,040
But being a good listener is a talent.

1083
01:02:53,140 --> 01:02:56,120
Being detail-oriented could be a talent.

1084
01:02:57,640 --> 01:02:58,320
Organized, yeah.

1085
01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:00,720
You can help others when you do this.

1086
01:03:00,720 --> 01:03:09,380
And I will be sharing with you what I answer, not because I put myself as this great example,

1087
01:03:09,680 --> 01:03:13,800
but just to give you also some more ideas what talents could be.

1088
01:03:14,060 --> 01:03:19,760
When I did this exercise, I put that my passion and enthusiasm are two talents of mine.

1089
01:03:20,580 --> 01:03:20,760
Okay.

1090
01:03:20,760 --> 01:03:25,700
So for you to get out of the box of what a talent is.

1091
01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:36,800
So the second question is, think a way you enjoy expressing those talents when you interact with others.

1092
01:03:38,140 --> 01:03:45,000
How do you, when you do those things, how do you act, you know, in presence of, with other people?

1093
01:03:45,000 --> 01:03:51,000
So how do you use those talents when you interact with other people?

1094
01:03:51,900 --> 01:03:56,220
And again, make it not too long, because then we are going to combine them.

1095
01:04:00,980 --> 01:04:02,020
Ready for three?

1096
01:04:03,380 --> 01:04:06,840
Imagine a world that is perfect right now.

1097
01:04:07,540 --> 01:04:12,400
How are the people interacting between themselves in the perfect world?

1098
01:04:13,100 --> 01:04:14,600
How does it feel?

1099
01:04:15,000 --> 01:04:18,060
Remember, the description is in the present like it's happening.

1100
01:04:19,760 --> 01:04:26,420
And remember, a perfect world is a fun place where one likes to be and enjoy.

1101
01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:33,080
So how does the perfect world look for you and how people interact in that?

1102
01:04:34,460 --> 01:04:36,160
Again, only just an idea.

1103
01:04:36,360 --> 01:04:42,920
I put that a world where everybody utilizes their natural talents and do what they love.

1104
01:04:42,920 --> 01:04:45,780
That, for me, would be a perfect world.

1105
01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:48,520
Ready for the last one?

1106
01:04:49,360 --> 01:04:55,040
Okay, the last one, the sentence, your response will start with my purpose is.

1107
01:04:55,040 --> 01:05:00,100
And you are going to combine the three before, yeah?

1108
01:05:00,180 --> 01:05:09,260
So my purpose is to utilize these talents, what happens when I interact with other people and what happens in the world.

1109
01:05:09,260 --> 01:05:20,640
So for me was, or is still, my purpose is to use my passion and enthusiasm to wake up others so they can rediscover who they really are.

1110
01:05:21,180 --> 01:05:25,140
This way they can use their natural talents and do what they love to do.

1111
01:05:25,140 --> 01:05:32,140
For me, we just need to unlearn to be able to relearn, yeah?

1112
01:05:32,320 --> 01:05:39,560
To trust ourselves, to know we can be ourselves and make money and have everything we need when we need it.

1113
01:05:39,960 --> 01:05:43,580
So when I was asked, what would you do even if you don't get paid?

1114
01:05:43,580 --> 01:05:47,600
I said something very ridiculous, okay?

1115
01:05:47,740 --> 01:05:50,580
And I found my notes, actually, of what I wrote.

1116
01:05:51,080 --> 01:05:53,440
And I couldn't believe it was my handwriting.

1117
01:05:54,120 --> 01:05:56,980
So when somebody asked me, I was a tax senior accountant.

1118
01:05:57,840 --> 01:06:00,880
And when somebody asked me, what would you do even if you don't get paid?

1119
01:06:00,980 --> 01:06:07,860
I wrote, literally, travel the world sharing with others what had helped me.

1120
01:06:07,860 --> 01:06:13,000
And at that moment, it was ridiculous.

1121
01:06:13,620 --> 01:06:15,640
So that's why I'm telling you, write it down.

1122
01:06:16,440 --> 01:06:19,820
So if you, today you can commit.

1123
01:06:20,300 --> 01:06:21,680
What is your commitment today?

1124
01:06:22,000 --> 01:06:24,180
That first step you are going to take.

1125
01:06:24,920 --> 01:06:27,220
It has to be something that you can do.

1126
01:06:27,540 --> 01:06:28,880
Don't, yeah?

1127
01:06:28,880 --> 01:06:36,820
So what will be the first step towards your dream, you know, or doing, you know, what you love?

1128
01:06:37,860 --> 01:06:39,820
Something that you know, oh, that's easy.

1129
01:06:39,980 --> 01:06:40,960
I can do it this week.

1130
01:06:41,020 --> 01:06:41,840
I can do it today.

1131
01:06:42,020 --> 01:06:43,240
I can, I'll do it Monday.

1132
01:06:43,740 --> 01:06:43,860
Yeah?

1133
01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:48,120
Not something that you say, well, maybe I can do this.

1134
01:06:48,220 --> 01:06:49,120
Maybe I'll call.

1135
01:06:49,260 --> 01:06:50,220
Maybe I'll go.

1136
01:06:50,400 --> 01:06:50,820
No, no.

1137
01:06:50,880 --> 01:06:52,460
Something that you say, oh, that's easy.

1138
01:06:52,680 --> 01:06:54,060
That will be my first step.

1139
01:06:55,260 --> 01:06:55,440
Yeah?

1140
01:06:55,520 --> 01:06:56,600
Something that you commit.

1141
01:06:56,700 --> 01:06:58,360
Our commitment is very important.

1142
01:06:58,680 --> 01:07:01,040
To know why you are doing it is very important.

1143
01:07:01,820 --> 01:07:05,940
And be sure you don't do anything for money because of the money.

1144
01:07:05,940 --> 01:07:08,940
The money will always come when you do something you love.

1145
01:07:09,460 --> 01:07:10,640
You don't have to worry.

1146
01:07:12,080 --> 01:07:12,220
Yeah?

1147
01:07:12,360 --> 01:07:18,240
The thing is that you have to trust enough to go for it and know that you are not alone,

1148
01:07:18,380 --> 01:07:19,740
that you are not going to do it alone.

1149
01:07:20,180 --> 01:07:20,480
Okay?

1150
01:07:20,820 --> 01:07:21,640
So thank you.

1151
01:07:21,700 --> 01:07:27,860
Sorry I don't have more time to give you to work on this, but hopefully you will keep working on this.

1152
01:07:27,940 --> 01:07:28,140
Yes?

1153
01:07:28,720 --> 01:07:30,360
So believe in yourself.

1154
01:07:30,580 --> 01:07:32,860
Trust your internal GPS.

1155
01:07:32,860 --> 01:07:34,340
Yes, we all have that GPS.

1156
01:07:35,180 --> 01:07:35,380
Yeah?

1157
01:07:35,680 --> 01:07:36,740
Should be capital.

1158
01:07:39,140 --> 01:07:42,420
Always live in the state of positive expectancy.

1159
01:07:42,840 --> 01:07:45,300
Knowing it will be coming soon.

1160
01:07:45,620 --> 01:07:48,000
Knowing that what is coming is always better.

1161
01:07:48,360 --> 01:07:48,740
Always.

1162
01:07:49,640 --> 01:07:52,480
You know, even when we go through changes, it's transformation.

1163
01:07:53,000 --> 01:07:53,140
Yeah?

1164
01:07:53,680 --> 01:07:55,180
Growing pains sometimes.

1165
01:07:55,180 --> 01:07:59,960
But always, when we look back, we say, thank God that that happened.

1166
01:08:00,240 --> 01:08:00,480
Yes?

1167
01:08:01,020 --> 01:08:03,620
Because maybe we wouldn't be here today.

1168
01:08:03,860 --> 01:08:04,120
Things.

1169
01:08:04,420 --> 01:08:04,980
It's always.

1170
01:08:05,280 --> 01:08:08,780
Say thank you to what you like and thank you to what you don't like.

1171
01:08:09,000 --> 01:08:10,220
Because there is a gift.

1172
01:08:10,320 --> 01:08:12,680
There is always a blessing behind.

1173
01:08:13,060 --> 01:08:15,740
That you cannot appreciate it right now, but you will.

1174
01:08:16,060 --> 01:08:17,480
You will realize later.

1175
01:08:17,820 --> 01:08:18,000
Yeah?

1176
01:08:18,000 --> 01:08:22,800
So, fly blindly.

1177
01:08:23,060 --> 01:08:24,280
Have no limits.

1178
01:08:25,380 --> 01:08:27,080
Yeah, there are unknown terrains.

1179
01:08:27,480 --> 01:08:29,500
But the process is fascinating.

1180
01:08:31,060 --> 01:08:32,540
Yeah, life is fascinating.

1181
01:08:33,580 --> 01:08:36,060
The thing is, again, we forgot who we are.

1182
01:08:36,520 --> 01:08:39,080
We forgot where our power is.

1183
01:08:39,080 --> 01:08:43,700
We don't have any clue of how powerful we are.

1184
01:08:46,300 --> 01:08:50,740
So, it's something, you know, that maybe you realized.

1185
01:08:51,640 --> 01:08:51,800
Yeah?

1186
01:08:52,540 --> 01:08:54,260
Maybe you want to write it down.

1187
01:08:54,660 --> 01:08:56,080
In this moment, I'm aware.

1188
01:08:56,980 --> 01:08:58,580
I will do my best to.

1189
01:08:59,100 --> 01:09:00,180
And I choose.

1190
01:09:00,560 --> 01:09:01,860
Choosing consciously.

1191
01:09:02,700 --> 01:09:02,880
Yeah?

1192
01:09:03,300 --> 01:09:06,200
Choosing even, you know, I'm going to be happy.

1193
01:09:06,400 --> 01:09:07,260
No matter what.

1194
01:09:07,260 --> 01:09:11,060
You know, I'm going to be at peace, no matter what is going on around me.

1195
01:09:12,740 --> 01:09:12,900
Yeah?

1196
01:09:13,020 --> 01:09:14,200
So, taking that.

1197
01:09:14,620 --> 01:09:16,800
I'm going to take 100% responsibility.

1198
01:09:17,020 --> 01:09:22,280
I will let go of that need to be right or to have the last word.

1199
01:09:24,300 --> 01:09:24,580
Yeah?

1200
01:09:24,700 --> 01:09:27,020
I will accept myself just the way I am.

1201
01:09:27,840 --> 01:09:30,840
So, there is a tool that I use a lot.

1202
01:09:31,940 --> 01:09:35,420
And my last conference in Malaga, I asked.

1203
01:09:35,420 --> 01:09:37,380
There were, like, 300 people there.

1204
01:09:37,580 --> 01:09:41,540
And I said, how many of you use the, I let go and trust?

1205
01:09:42,380 --> 01:09:44,240
Most hands went up.

1206
01:09:44,340 --> 01:09:44,400
Yeah?

1207
01:09:44,700 --> 01:09:48,640
I'm always telling people, let go and trust.

1208
01:09:48,800 --> 01:09:49,680
Let go and trust.

1209
01:09:50,380 --> 01:09:50,540
Yeah?

1210
01:09:50,600 --> 01:09:54,580
So, if I have a scary situation, I just go, I let go and trust.

1211
01:09:54,640 --> 01:09:55,440
I let go and trust.

1212
01:09:55,520 --> 01:09:56,180
I let go and trust.

1213
01:09:56,180 --> 01:10:01,660
I don't allow my stories to get on the way, you know, and to scare me more.

1214
01:10:02,400 --> 01:10:02,540
Yeah?

1215
01:10:02,620 --> 01:10:05,280
So, I know that my job is just to be present.

1216
01:10:05,420 --> 01:10:07,880
You know, what Buddha called the middle way, yes?

1217
01:10:07,880 --> 01:10:11,240
So, we are like these trees.

1218
01:10:11,420 --> 01:10:14,280
We are going to be banned, but, hey, we come back.

1219
01:10:14,460 --> 01:10:15,460
We always come back.

1220
01:10:17,120 --> 01:10:17,240
Yeah?

1221
01:10:17,400 --> 01:10:19,960
So, I started telling you about the book.

1222
01:10:20,080 --> 01:10:29,280
So, the pictures that I show you are on my The Easiest Way to Grow book that comes with some audio and videos, digital,

1223
01:10:29,280 --> 01:10:40,660
that we give you access when you buy the book, I find that I put all the messages that I, of all the things that I realized that changed my life.

1224
01:10:41,080 --> 01:10:41,280
Yeah?

1225
01:10:41,360 --> 01:10:47,400
And I said, wow, if I would have known this when I was young, my life would have been very different.

1226
01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:47,840
Yeah?

1227
01:10:47,840 --> 01:10:52,840
But I think it's very important we allow our kids to be themselves, to be happy.

1228
01:10:53,260 --> 01:10:58,080
And then, actually, all these weird stories were put in this Malujia, the happy city.

1229
01:10:59,280 --> 01:11:07,860
And they are really great stories, but based on all these weird concepts, you know, or talking to things, or being ourselves.

1230
01:11:08,700 --> 01:11:14,220
So, the story goes that in this happy city, they practice Ho'oponopono.

1231
01:11:14,940 --> 01:11:20,040
And because they become such a happy city, tourists come to see what they did, you know?

1232
01:11:20,100 --> 01:11:21,640
How did you accomplish this?

1233
01:11:22,520 --> 01:11:27,260
And the tourist guides are the kids.

1234
01:11:27,260 --> 01:11:28,260
Yeah?

1235
01:11:28,340 --> 01:11:32,640
So, they know all these concepts about Ho'oponopono, and they share it with the tourists that come.

1236
01:11:32,960 --> 01:11:38,760
So, it's really a wonderful book for children and adults, the same.

1237
01:11:38,980 --> 01:11:39,940
Thank you, everybody.

1238
01:11:41,520 --> 01:11:42,120
Thank you.

1239
01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:42,180
Thank you.

1240
01:11:42,180 --> 01:11:42,240
Thank you.

1241
01:11:42,240 --> 01:11:43,180
Thank you.

1242
01:11:43,180 --> 01:11:44,180
Thank you.

1243
01:11:44,180 --> 01:11:45,180
Thank you.

1244
01:11:45,180 --> 01:11:46,180
Thank you.

1245
01:11:46,180 --> 01:11:48,180
Thank you.

1246
01:11:48,180 --> 01:11:49,180
Thank you.

1247
01:11:49,180 --> 01:11:51,180
Thank you.

1248
01:11:51,180 --> 01:11:53,180
Thank you.

1249
01:11:53,180 --> 01:11:54,180
Thank you.

1250
01:11:54,180 --> 01:11:55,180
Thank you.

1251
01:11:55,180 --> 01:11:56,180
Thank you.

1252
01:11:56,180 --> 01:11:57,240
Thank you.